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Category Archives: writing
Saving Lesbian Films From Themselves
Did you hear the one about the cute girl who goes to a lesbian film with another cute girl and they walk out of the film, hand in hand, thinking they’d love to see that same film again only this … Continue reading
Posted in humour, lesbianism, popular culture, queerness, sexuality, writing
Tagged After Ellen, Bridesmaids, Elena Undone, Emo, films, I kissed a girl, Katie Perry, lesbian, Mean Girls, neoliberal, Peta Wilson, Sarah Waters, Spider Lilies, Susan Sarandon, The Secrets, Tomboy, Trigger, Xena
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My New Year’s Resolutions
Hi friends and those who somehow stumbled upon this blog (and thank you for that). Happy (many versions of) holidays (and festivuses, or plain old times to just get drunk, or moments to wish for better families, or a family … Continue reading
Posted in activism, humour, popular culture, queerness, social justice, social politics, writing
Tagged Feist, G8, Jersey Shore, Jesus, Kyoto, margaret Wente, Michelle Bachman, New year's Resolutions, Newt Gingrich, Oprah, Peter MacKay, Rob Ford, Rogue, Sara Palin, Stephen Harper
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Glitterfesto and the power of Queer Confusion
Ok friends. As I promised, back to queer optimism. I can say this without lying: I’m an optimistic lonely gay. I know this sounds like an oxymoron but it’s true. Optimism is part of my politics of loneliness, a queerly … Continue reading
Posted in activism, humour, lesbianism, loneliness, popular culture, queer politics, social justice, social politics, writing
Tagged democracy, G8, glitter, Glitterfesto, Grinch, happiness, Jasmine Rault, lonely, margaret Wente, occupy Toronto, queer, social justice, Stephen Harper, T.L. Cowen, utopia
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Lonely malls, Voldemort, and motorized wheelchairs
51. Today, I am outing myself. Again. I am omega lonely. I am my own lonely archive. I am the material I have accumulated. And I say this in happy-humiliation. Where has this realization come from? Well, the easy answer … Continue reading
Posted in activism, humour, lesbianism, loneliness, popular culture, sexuality, writing
Tagged depression, Hamilton, Harry Potter, mall, memoir, motorized wheelchairs, SARS, skeletons, smoking, Sontag, Starbucks, Voldemort
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Newt Gingrich on the Sacred
45. In his article “Eight Ways to Divorce Proof You Marriage,” relationship coach and author of Treat Your Man Like a V.I.P: Topless Tactics You Were Never Taught Xxavier T outlines what he argues are necessary tips for any wife … Continue reading
The Bystander Effect
41. I’m entering month two of my 9 months of writing this thesis and I’m, well to be kind to myself, a tad behind. Why? Life swirls on around me and I’ve decided I’m not going to miss a chance … Continue reading
Posted in activism, loneliness, popular culture, social justice, social politics, writing
Tagged Bystander Effect, China, corporate, greed, heartless, Kitty Genovese, neoliberalism, sociopath, William Pickton
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The Vagueness of Occupy Wall Street
38. I’m trying to write my thesis on the politics of loneliness. I am, really! But I’m preoccupied with the incredibly socially enabled Occupy Wallstreet movement in Zuccotti Park, Manhattan New York. I’ve been following the movement through my friends … Continue reading
Posted in activism, humour, popular culture, sexuality, social justice, social politics, writing
Tagged Herman Cain, new york, occupy Toronto, occupy wallstreet, protest, The New York Times, Zuccotti park
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Lonely Lady Gaga
34. New day new mood. Fuck. Sometimes it’s harder than others. But the ‘scope assures me I’m okay to feel a bit off kilter today. Comfort from the cosmos: Horoscope for Sagittarius, October 12 2011. Your mood will be fairly … Continue reading
Posted in humour, lesbianism, loneliness, popular culture, queer politics, queerness, sexuality, social justice, writing
Tagged contagion, Ed Gant, lady gaga, social network, solitude, surveillance, Taylor Swift
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Rescuing Geena Davis
32. I rescued Geena Davis in my dream last night. I have no idea where she came from or why she was there, but I was on a very important mission (again, a bit hazy) where I had to do … Continue reading
Posted in humour, lesbianism, loneliness, popular culture, queerness, writing
Tagged daniel craig, dream house, gena davis, hairspray, red wine, snickers, thanksgiving, training bra, turkey
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